Sunday, February 21, 2010






Hey everyone! Here’s the weekly rundown.

Monday—Pendla was pretty normal on Monday. It was extremely hot, so the kids were all worn out and tired. In the afternoon, our jazz class went on a “field trip” to the private high school that my professor also works at. The place looked like a country club (couldn’t contrast any more with Pendla)—I felt like I was in the midst of South African gossip girl. There, we heard 11th and 7th graders play the marimbas—they are SO GOOD. It was so much fun to hear! They did lots of popular songs (everything from Andrea Bocelli to Coldplay to Black Eyed Peas), and then we got to try them out. I learned a part on the bass marimba, and then we all came together to play a mambo. During our “cool drink” break, I asked one of the students to show me how to play Just Dance, so I now know how to play Lady Gaga on the marimba. I also talked for a long time with another student—she is 17 years old and seems to be smart beyond her years. She was really curious to know what life is like back in the states, so we had a really good conversation about how we each grew up.

After class, we had our first taste of a thunderstorm here in PE—they need it like crazy, there’s a big water shortage because they are in the middle of the worst drought in 88 years. However, it only last a few minutes and there was a big rainbow over the ocean afterward. J Since the weather cleared up, a few of us headed to campus for the varsity rugby game. It was SO fun! There were tons of people there, and student section cheered and danced and sang the entire time. There also was a group of guys that were just like the Rat Pack, so that was fun too. Getting home ended up being quite the process because none of us there had a phone and the only cab number we knew wasn’t picking up…but it was totally worth it.

Tuesday—Again, Pendla was pretty ordinary this day. My favorite little guy (Awonke) got the ear-pull from Mrs. Ndumi and a letter from the principal, so that was sad to see (especially because I have no idea what he did!), but on the whole it was pretty standard. This picture is of a few of the boys in my class--Awonke is the second one from the right. SO CUTE.

After class, we went to a pancake dinner at the church a block from Langerry. I’m really happy we went. First of all, the food was great (pancakes here are actually crepes), and secondly, I got to talk to some cool people. I sat at a table with a couple of moms and their kids, so they were telling me about their world travels and the schools they go to. Afterward, I walked out the back door of the church and about 10 kids were there playing with a volleyball—naturally, I had to join them. I absolutely love the kids at Pendla, but playing with the Afrikaner kids at the church was a nice change for a bit. At Pendla, there are always 20 kids hanging on me at once and it’s always mass chaos; with these kids, I was actually able to talk to and play a game with them. The fact that they spoke English helped as well. J Like I said, I would never trade working with the Pendla kids, but it was just nice to get to play with kids in a setting more like home.

Wednesday---In the morning, we had our second community service learning lecture. I found out that lots of people have not had great experiences at Pendla, mainly because of the teachers. It made me really grateful to be with Mrs. Ndumi. Also, after hearing from the people at the House, I’m much more confident in my decision to go to Pendla.

Wednesday night, some of us went and saw Valentines Day at the boardwalk—it was really fun to get to a movie in the theater. It actually made me a little homesick for the first time (a couple other girls felt the same way!) because I felt like I was at home during the show. It faded pretty quickly though, so no worries. J

Thursday—Nothing too exciting on Thursday. I absolutely love going for walks and runs on the beach early in the morning here…so that was probably the highlight of my day haha.

Friday— I headed to the pool again for the late morning and early afternoon. I LOVE that place, so it’s soo wonderful. Sunburn city though, my Minnesota skin had a little too much of the African sun. In the evening, our entire group went to the PE cricket match versus Cape Town. It was so much more fun than I thought it would be! It was packed (15,000 people), the Castles were cheap, the crowd was crazy, and the weather was perfect. It actually felt like a Twins game, but outdoors (whaddup Target Field!). This coloured guy (still feel weird saying that!) sitting next to me was extremely helpful in explaining the game to me so I actually knew what was going on. He and a few girls he was with also told me a little about the coloured population down here, so that was interesting to hear.

Saturday—Jeffrey’s Bay! We crammed 14 people into two compact cars for the hour long drive to Jeffrey’s Bay, one of the best surf towns in the world. It is SO BEAUTIFUL there! I absolutely loved it. The ocean waves are massive, the beaches are a beautiful white, there are tons of sand dunes, and there are mountains on the outskirts of the city. It’s not huge by any means—it’s actually relatively small—but that is part of what gave it a really cool feel. I felt like there should be speakers everywhere in the town blasting Jack Johnson. People with surfboard are everywhere, and it’s just super chilled out. Billabong hosts their annual surf competition in JBay, so there is Billabong stuff everywhere (we definitely did a little damage at the factory outlet store). There were lots of cute little ice cream shops and whatnot, so it was a lot of fun to walk around town.

Unfortunately, the ocean was too rough and choppy for us to try surfing. Instead, we got some lunch, explored the town, shopped a little, then headed to the beach outside our hostel (Surfpackers) to climb on the rocks and search for seashells. For dinner, we went to this AMAZING place on the beach called Walskippers! Expensive, but worth it. The floor of the restaurant is all sand…you can just walk around barefoot. It’s lit by candlelight lanterns, and you can see everything being cooked—a great atmosphere! I had crocodile and calamari (yes mom, I voluntarily ordered seafood), and it was sooo so so good. Jake and Lauren split a meat platter that had everything from springbok to bone marrow (yes, bone marrow), and Jedlicka and Kenefick split a seafood platter…I’ve never seen so much food on one plate in my life.

On the drive to Walskippers, we passed the most run-down township I’ve seen since I’ve been here. We all were shocked to see such terrible conditions, but the real shock came about 30 seconds after we passed it—all of a sudden, we were surrounded by these unbelievably huge, extravagant homes. There was even a moat going around the estates (not kidding). It was just a really clear illustration of the political and social climate in this country.

After dinner, we went back to our hostel and hung out with some guys from Argentina that were also staying there. We were going to head into town, but we were having so much fun that we decided to just stay at the hostel! We just played games, talked, and had a blast. One of the Argentinans (is that what you call them?) taught me how to salsa, so that was a lot of fun. (Anji—they were very impressed with my knowledge of Spanish songs! They even knew david bisbal—we sang ave maria. YES.)

Sunday—We all got up early because some of us were going sandboarding and some of us were going horseback riding. I was in the horseback riding group, which I was really excited for because I had never ridden a horse before. My horse, Baby, was pretty good—she would buck around a little bit but stayed pretty calm for the first half of the ride. The scenery was BEAUTIFUL! We started up at the base of a mountain, overlooking the ocean…went through the sand dunes (I felt like I was in the desert and should have been riding a camel or something)…and ended with a long beach portion. Baby went CRAZY when we got to the beach, and it was soooo scary. I could handle it when she trotted quickly, but on the beach she launched into a full-blown gallop. Pulling the reins didn’t work in the least, so I just held on for dear life and prayed that my brain didn’t hemorrhage. All in all, it was a good experience, but the horses were a little crazy. A couple people got thrown off their horse, and one girl’s horse decided to launch into a full-blown sprint in the opposite direction. It all makes it more of an adventure though, so I’m really happy we did it.

So, here I am, back at Langerry for another week of classes. This week is going to be crazy on the homework front, so I doubt there will be anything too terribly exciting to blog about next week. Until next time, cheers!

Friday, February 12, 2010

This week will mark my one-month mark in South Africa—I can’t believe it! The time has flown by so quickly. I’m settling into a routine, which feels good.

Last Sunday evening, I went to a student worship service at the university called Livewire. It was absolutely wonderful. The music was great, the speaker was charismatic and engaging, and there were SO many people there. For the next few weeks it’s actually going to be at the Boardwalk, which is only a 10-15 minute walk from my apartment, so I’m excited for that.

Classes were really good this week. On Monday, we learned traditional Xhosa music and the national anthem, and it was SO fun. Their national anthem is actually made of four different languages: Xhosa, Zulu, Afrikaans (very hard to read and speak by the way!), and English. It’s a beautiful song, and I hadn’t actually heard it before. We also had a blast learning “The Click Song.” It’s a traditional children’s song that has about seven million clicks in each word, hence the title. We got the hang of it though, and by the end we were out of our seats and incorporating the dance too, so it was a lot of fun.

Yesterday during political science we had a guest lecturer that came to talk about the four main players in the South African political scene (the NP, ANC, IFP, and PAC). What made it interesting however, was that he was a proud Afrikaner member of the National Party. It was possibly one of the most biased lectures I’ve ever heard, but it was interesting to hear from someone of the NP. Virtually everything that I’ve seen or read paints the NP to be the “bad guys” and the ANC to be the “good guys,” and this guy was definitely trying to change that view. It was very frustrating at times to listen to, because he was SO defensive of the NP. He skirted questions and only told us good things about the NP and bad things about the ANC. He tried to justify a lot of the really crappy stuff the NP did during apartheid, and that was a little frustrating as well. He also made a couple of outlandish statements—for example, saying that the apartheid police murdering 69 people in just one massacre wasn’t a big deal because in the four years after Mandela was released from prison, there were 20,000 black-on-black murders. All in all, even though it was biased, it kept me engaged for the whole lecture.

This week has been pretty chilled out. We had another group potluck last night, which are a lot of fun—we go out on the roof and enjoy the food, view, and company. Today is Katie Brown’s birthday, so this morning a few of us went to have breakfast at Tiffany’s (yes, there are pictures of Audrey Hepburn all over the place), then we went to this beachside pool that is about a 2 minute walk from our flats. It was so fun (we got creative with the waterslides there), and the view of the ocean waves made it even better. Most of my group (that didn’t leave PE this weekend) is out celebrating her bday right now, but I decided to sit this one out to have the flat to myself, relax, and get a couple things done (like this blog). But it was such a fun day at the pool and everything, we decided to declare her birthday a national South African holiday, to be celebrated every year. J

Pendla was absolutely chaotic this week. My first day was normal—I’m starting to really get to know the kids in the class now, which is great and makes that experience SO much better. I’m learning some names too, which has been quite the battle! Luxolo (yes, that x means a click), Kolekha, Khanya, Awonke, Asemahle, Zola…they’re much different from the Mallorys, Clays, and Paiges I hang out with at home, so it’s a little hard to remember them—but it’s coming, slowly but surely. I have a really hard time with Luxolo because of the click and Asemahle because there’s this really weird sound that I just can’t make my mouth produce. They think it’s hilarious though, and LOVE to laugh at me trying. Awonke cracks me up SO much—he is kind of a little jokester and is always trying to trick me. When he laughs, he gets the funniest look on his face—it’s kind of scrunched up with his eyebrows raised....when it's mixed with his absolutely massive head and his lack of front teeth, it's pretty adorable.

The second day was the crazy one. The grade 1 (and apparently one of the grade R?) teachers were not there that day, so we ended up with 30+ additional 4, 5, and 6 year olds on top of the 30 grade 3 kids. All in all, there were 63 children in the room for the entire day. Megan Buermann was in the class with me that day, because she works in one of the classes without a teacher. All of the little ones sat on the floor in the back while Mrs. Ndumi tried to teach her normal lesson. Essentially, my only job for the day was to keep the little ones under control and relatively quiet—not an easy task when they don’t speak a world of English and the only Xhosa word I know is hello! Eventually Mrs. Ndumi just had Megan and I take the kids outside, which became SO stressful. Some were running away, some were fighting, and about 10 of them were hanging on each of us at all times. It was really hard for us to communicate anything to them because they speak no English and they did not pay attention to any nonverbal attempts. At one point, one of the kids had another kid pinned to the ground, strangling him. I pulled him off and wanted to at least talk to him and let him know that it’s not ok, but it was a lost cause. Eventually, we were able to get them doing races, and that kept most of the mob under control for the time being. The day ended back in the classroom, with Mrs. Ndumi, Megan, myself, and all 63 kids marching around the room, singing different African songs. Even though the day was stressful, it was a really nice way to end it.

I haven't really experienced much homesickness or anything so far--how can i in such a cool place?--but i have heard that usually it doesn't hit until you've been here for a longer period of time. Even though I haven't gotten homesick, of course I miss my family and friends! Love you all. Working with the kids at Pendla reminds me of the kids I work with at home, so they are missed as well! Jasmine’s mom wrote on my Facebook wall the other day, telling me that Jazzy told her new PCA that she might have to fire her when I get back from my ‘field trip.’ Things like that, I miss! But it’s hard to think about those things for too long, because I’m in such a great place and doing so many great things.


We were going to be heading to Jeffreys Bay this weekend, but we’re actually going to postpone it until next weekend. It should be a blast—lots of surfing and hoseback riding on the beach (romantic, right? J). I’m not sure what’s on the agenda for tomorrow, but I’m sure we’ll find something to do. I want to find a cage diving place to do a shark dive! We’ll see where the day takes me. Until next time, much love from under the African sun.

Saturday, February 6, 2010

hi all!

I have one week of classes under my belt, and whoever said abroad classes are super easy LIED. I literally have hundreds of pages to read for this week—so it’s a good thing most of the classes seem interesting haha. I’ll just give a quick bit about my classes so I can move on to something all of you might care about a little more.

Mondays: South African Jazz. This is absolutely going to be my easiest class. The prof is SO high strung and scatterbrained—but in a good way. She seems really funny and very approachable, so I look forward to her class. Monday’s class was about traditional Nguni music—not exactly the jazz I thought we were going to be looking at, but fascinating nonetheless. We listened to different traditional instruments and types of singing—one of which sounds like an extremely low frog croak. Probably the weirdest sound I’ve ever heard come from a human being. Cat and I were having a hard time keeping the laughter locked up. I also learned how to do the different clicks of the Xhosa language, which I loved! There are three main types: against the palette, against the front teeth, and with each side of the mouth. I can hope that it will help me a little bit with the kids at Pendla, but we’ll see. J

Tuesdays: Senior Seminar. I guess I wasn’t expecting to have tons of work for this class, but we were assigned a LOT of reading. Sections of Nelson Mandela’s autobiography alone are about 300 pages each class period, which is addition to all of our other readings. Although it’s a lot when thrown on top of our other stuff, most of the readings are really interesting and I actually don’t mind reading it. We only have a couple long papers for the course as well, so that’s not too terrible.

Wednesdays: South African Literature. WOW, it has been a long time since I’ve had a lit course, or even an English class in general (what up Mrs. Marco’s 11th grade Brit Lit?). Even though I’m extremely rusty on the whole read-ponder-find symbols-find meaning-thing, I’m looking forward to this class. My prof seems SO smart and knowledgable about both the literature and history of the apartheid. We will mainly be looking at literature written by white South Africans about the racial struggles of the country, so I think that will be very cool.

Thursdays: South African Politics. To be completely honest, this class scares me. I’ve never had a poli sci class before, the prof is funny yet intimidating, and there seems to be a LOT of work (18 page papers, 10 readings for next class period, etc). South Africa has such a unique and complicated political history and present, so I’m really very eager to learn about it—I just know that this class will require the most work out of me.

So, to sum up the class thing—I’m really looking forward to gaining a comprehensive understanding of South Africa while I’m living here, regardless of how much work it takes. At least I get to do all the reading on the beach. J

I also began my volunteer work this week at Pendla Primary School in the New Brighton township in Port Elizabeth. I am working in Mrs. Ndumi’s grade 3 classroom, and I love it. I wanted to be with the younger kids, and one of the people from last year told me Mrs. Ndumi was the way to go. The kids are just learning English (most of the lessons are taught in Xhosa, and that’s how they communicate with each other as well), so I’m not able to have extensive verbal conversations with the kids—but I can definitely talk to them, and I’m getting much better at my non-verbal communication skills. These kids seriously warm my heart to no end—each visit is a constant flow of hugs, high fives, hand-holding, and any other contact the kids can have with us. I spend a lot of time with children at home, so I'm really excited to work with them in a different cultural context.

The first day was a little bit unorganized—they were bouncing us around from room to room, some rooms didn’t have teachers that day, and we just didn’t know what was going on in general. However, the second day was MUCH better. The kids alternate between having math and reading in the mornings. For the math lessons, they count to 200 in both English and Xhosa, and also count by different numerical increments (3’s, 20’s, etc). Since they do this all as a large group, I don’t feel like much of a help—I simple count along during the English part and follow along on a counting chart during the Xhosa part. During the reading lessons however, I am pretty much teaching the class independently. Katie was joining me in Mrs. Ndumi’s classroom for the day because her teacher wasn’t there, so we both read a book in English with the kids (the kids read along with us), then we did a TON of flashcards of English words that the kids read for us. After the lesson, we were able to play some games with the kids—they LOVE rhythm-based games, and they are so rhythmically talented it blows my mind. Although many of the games are in Xhosa, I’m eventually able to pick up on them.

I get to go out for the recess break with the class as well, which has been a blast. On my first day, I organized a game of soccer with about 40 eight year old boys….it was chaotic, but so much fun. AND I scored a goal (WOOT!), which I was actually pretty proud of because these kids are amazing soccer players. It was really nice because the language barrier was not really an issue during the game. My second day during recess was quite a bit different—I had showered right before we left for Pendla that day, and left it down to air dry. The kids were OBSESSED with it. Even while we were still in the classroom, I had about 10 hands on it at all times, stroking it, braiding it, twisting it. When we went out for recess with the kids from the other young classrooms, I ended up with about 20 hands on it at all times. Literally, the kids were pushing each other over to play with it. It was SO bizarre for me—but I wasn’t complaining because having my hair played with is probably my favorite thing in the whole world.

I think it’s going to take some time to get used to how drastically different Pendla is from our schools back home. Obviously, there is a drastic difference in the physical state of the school, but that’s not what is going to take time. The overall functioning of the school is what is so different. For example, if a teacher doesn’t show up to school that day, the classroom of kids will literally be left alone all day. It seems like there is so much less time where the teachers are actually teaching—for example, Mrs. Ndumi is always dealing with the money of the school (they don’t have a clerical worker or a bookkeeper) while the kids simply sit there or I play organized games with them. Another girl I’m down here with said her teacher assigned some math problems, then left the room for about an hour and a half. One-on-one work is nonexistent, which is partially because there are 30-40 children in a lower-grade classroom. There is so much less structure to the classroom…it seems like the mentality is “if we do the lesson, great—if we don’t, that’s cool too.” I hope that our group can help these issues a little bit, but part of it is just understanding that this is the culture here, and it’s just not possible for these township schools to function like the suburban American schools I’m used to.

The kids are SO WONDERFUL. Besides being absolutely adorable, they are welcoming, funny, and so much fun to talk to and play with. I laugh so hard while I’m with them—for example, Katie and I took the class to the bathroom for break, and while we were all waiting for everyone to get done, they all started dancing like Michael Jackson! Moonwalk, crotch-grab-and-thrust and all. AND some started singing Beat It and Billie Jean, which was pretty hilarious. I guess MJ really is the universal language. They love to sing and dance, and are always trying to teach me moves. Like I said, they are so affectionate, which I love. It breaks my heart to see some of them without lunch at breaktime—even though Pendla is wonderful and provides a vegetable-filled soup for them, it still stings to know that their families can’t afford to send a sandwich or piece of bread with them. It’s a reminder of the realities of poverty in this country, which is so important to keep in mind.

Yesterday we had a day-long group excursion to Addo Elephant National Park and Schotia Game Reserve. It was absolutely one of the best days since I’ve been here! We loaded up the bus with Bradley Levack (coolest, most interesting man on the planet) as our guide, and once again headed inland to the over-100 degree heat of the African bush. Addo was incredible, as we saw almost 160 elephants in their natural habitat. Since it was so hot that day, the herds needed to come out to the watering hole. We saw fights, near-drownings, parents with their babies, and some elephants trying to make babies. Besides all of the elephants, we also saw lots of kudu and warthogs at Addo.

After an incredibly elaborate lunch courtesy of Bradley, we headed to Schotia to go on a full-fledged African safari. IT WAS SO COOL. We loaded into canopied land rovers and got unbelievably close to lions, crocodiles, hippos, rhinos, giraffes, warthogs, zebras, meerkats, wildebeasts, kudu, all sorts of bucks…it was so awesome. I felt like I was right in the middle of the discovery channel, just watching these animals doing their thing. At about 7, they brought us to this restaurant-type-area that was halfway outside and halfway inside, where we were served drinks and an elaborate African meal. It was so much fun just enjoying the meal and conversation with others from my group. Plus, Sister Mary Jane had a Castle and told us about how much she loves her beer, so that was unexpected and pretty funny. After dinner, we headed out for the night spotlight portion of the safari…we got to see lions eating a wildebeast, which was really disgusting but pretty cool. The best part of the night portion, however, was the night sky. It was unlike anything I had ever seen—we could see the entire Milky Way, completely unpolluted by light. I’ve never seen so many stars in my life. It was absolutely majestic.

When we loaded back in the bus for the ride back to PE, I started thinking about how amazing the day was, and how I got to see so many amazing things—the beautiful stars in particular. The first thing that popped into my mind was how good God is, and what a beautiful word He has created. However, as we drove past township after township—the shacks, the dirt, the garbage—I became burdened with the thought of the extreme poverty down here. I’ve never been a person to question bad things that happen, because I guess I’ve always trusted that there is a reason it is happening, even if it isn’t apparent to me. Seeing the poverty down here has changed that slightly though, and it’s been a personal struggle dealing with it. How is it fair, or even possible, that these people are living in tin shacks with no running water or electricity, while I am sitting at Langerry Flats across from the ocean, typing on my personal computer? How is it fair that these people are SO stricken with HIV/AIDS, have little to no educational or job opportunities, and deal with terrifying threats like rape and murder on a regular basis? It’s even crazy to see such devastating conditions in such beautiful surroundings—the sun, the ocean, the palm trees. It’s just a lot to take in, and I’m struggling to see how there could be any sort of meaning, purpose, or reason behind it. Although I am kind of battling with feelings of guilt, frustration, and confusion, I am happy because I know that it’s what I need. I know that by seeing the situations down here firsthand, it’s eventually going to make me grow into a better, more understanding person.

On a lighter note, I’m finally starting to get settled in and used to life here, and I’m absolutely loving it! Combis aren’t such a foreign means of transportation, I don’t feel like SUCH a lost weirdo walking around the university campus, and I’ve met a ton of really cool locals. I love going for walks in the morning, just taking in the sights, smells, and sounds of the early morning ocean. I’m learning to work the rand a little bit better, and don’t have to whip out my little calculator quite as much anymore. I’m still in love with the accents down here, but they are definitely becoming less noticeable and more understandable. I’m getting used to not being anywhere without guys past sunset (our guys have been absolutely wonderful in going places with us and watching our backs by the way!), and I feel like although we’re VERY clearly American, we’ve been able to tone it down quite a bit. All in all, I know I’m going to be a different person when I get on the plane in Port Elizabeth in May than when I got on the plane in Minneapolis in January. Much love to all of you until next time!